How to Get & Stay Motivated
How to Get & Stay
Motivated
Have you ever decided to start eating healthier and exercise every day, only to find yourself in front of the TV not even a week later, wondering where the motivation went and why the couch feels so comfy?
If you’ve experienced this, you’re not alone. Far from it, in fact.
Most people struggle to maintain a consistently healthy lifestyle.
Fortunately, there is an explanation for this – and there are answers on how to change it!
Most of us already know the following:
✔️ How much to eat
✔️ What foods to give up
✔️ What exercises to do
✔️ How much sleep we need
✔️ Etc.
Some of us even hired a personal trainer or a dietician who helped set the parameters of what we should be doing to achieve our goals.
They’ve put together exercise programs and tailored-to-you menus, only to add the cherry on top that in the end, everything is up to us…
…AND THEY WERE RIGHT.
Theories and practices on how to get our desired body, are available everywhere.
But how come we don’t use this information to its full potential?
Why do we find it difficult to stay motivated, and why do we almost always end up falling back into old habits?
Let’s put it in context…
No matter how determined we are not to eat that unhealthy treat today, we find ourselves ordering it, indulging in it, and then regretting it tomorrow.
Most of us can relate to this scenario in one way or another.
There are, however, some people who are highly persistent and keep going despite major setbacks.
Is there something they know that most don’t?
How do they find the energy and motivation, and why do they never seem to look for an excuse or a way out?
What if it’s all in our head or should I rather say – our brain?
…Successful people don’t leave
things to chance
…Successful people don’t
leave things to chance
Did you know there are proven psychological techniques we can use to increase the likelihood of attaining what we desire by as much as 95%?
The secret of the most successful people is that they know how to re-wire their brain for success. Simply put, they know how to trick their brain into helping them pursue their goals.
It’s the same with any goal, so when figuring out how to get fit, it’s all about understanding how our brain works and how to work with it.
Only then can we rewire it into helping us pursue and achieve our goals.
So, where do we begin?
First, we have to turn that desire into a tangible and achievable goal. Why? Because the success we see for ourselves will remain in our heads until we define its parameters and make a plan to achieve it.
We need to:
✔️ Evaluate our desire(s) in great detail
✔️ Figure out why we want to achieve it
✔️ Outline the steps of progression
✔️ Clear the path and walk along it
Once we start to see our desires in detail, we can understand why we want to achieve them.
And once we have set out the steps towards achieving them, the path becomes clear, and we’ll finally believe we can actually accomplish it.
Mike Tyson once said:
“Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face”
And while you will undoubtedly collect a few knocks on your way to the finish line, you can rewire your brain to resist their impact, allowing you to push through your obstacles and obtain success.
Ok, so there’s a lot more to it… But for now, let’s focus on setting your goals!
One of the most important parts of this goal-setting process is to write everything down.
Repetition helps the brain realize how important achieving this goal is to us, which makes the mind obsessed with inevitably achieving it.
The more we focus clearly on what we want, the more opportunities will come our way.
Let me explain why this happens 👇
THE POWER OF THE MIND
Ever heard of the Reticular Activating System (RAS)?
Basically, this is the center of our brain that filters information.
Its primary responsibility is to determine whether the information received by the subconscious reaches the conscious part of the brain.
The world around us is filled with overwhelming stimuli which make this task vital.
Nobody wants to be overloaded with thinking about breathing, the effects of gravity, the sounds we hear, and the endless details we see.
This would make day-to-day functioning downright impossible.
The Reticular Activating System exists to decipher which is most important and filter out the rest.
Think of it this way…
✔️ Our subconscious mind is an endless line of people
✔️ Our consciousness is an elite nightclub
✔️ The RAS is the club’s bouncer
✔️ Important bits of information are the VIP guests
Imagine tons of people accumulating outside a nightclub. The bouncer has a checklist of which people are allowed in.
He only lets the VIP guests enter the club.
Or in brain science terms – our subconscious gathers millions of bits of info every minute.
RAS has a checklist which information to pass through to our conscious mind.
It lets in only those pieces of info which are most important to us.
However, because all this information has to go somewhere, we introduce another dimension – the subconscious – which takes in 100% of the data received.
RAS – What automatically makes it onto the VIP guest list?
- Our name
- Loud sounds that demand our attention
- Interest in procreation
- Whatever we “tell” it is important to us 👈 THIS IS KEY!
So, if we identify what is important to us, those things will also be brought to our attention.🧠😎
WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?
Once we’re able to reprogram the RAS and convince it which information is and isn’t important to us, it will begin to release this into the conscious part of the brain.
As a result, we will begin to see new opportunities.
Here’s an example:
• If someone isn’t a car enthusiast, they likely won’t notice what car models pass by on the road. That’s because this information isn’t important to them, and so, their mind chooses not to bring their attention to it.
However…
When such a person is in the process of purchasing a new car, they have to do some important analysis, including the type of vehicle, those within their budget, size and economic practicalities, etc.
And because all of these considerations are important to inform the decision, all of a sudden this person can’t stop seeing that car everywhere they go.
• This also happens with pregnant women and young mothers…
Almost immediately, everyone around us is also pregnant or looking after a kid.
That’s because your child is now the most important thing in life, and therefore, we are more aware of when they are around.
Has anything like this ever happened to you?
The amazing thing is that these opportunities are always there. We just don’t notice them until our RAS decides they were “important enough” to us.
And it’s only through consciousness techniques that we can take control of this system and:
✔️ Make healthier lifestyle decisions
✔️ Increase our motivation levels
✔️ Stay consistent without losing interest
TELLING RAS WHAT TO PRIORITIZE…
So how do we ensure our goals don’t land up in the subconscious parts of our mind?
It’s simple…!
…We write them down.
“Writing causes thinking, thinking creates images, images control feelings, feelings cause actions, actions create results!” – Bob Proctor 🎯
Easy enough, right?
But there’s more to It.
Although we activate our Reticular Activating System simply by writing down our goals, pen to paper isn’t enough to bring them into reality.
Something has to change within us to ensure we stick to the path we’ve set for ourselves.
We Need To:
- Understand our WHY
- Define our Values and Beliefs
- Visualize our success
Once you manage to do all these things, you’ll see that your desires aren’t merely daydreams.
You’ll start to feel that they can actually be achieved.
And that knot in the stomach when thinking about the future will turn into butterflies of excitement.
You’ll see a boost in confidence and motivation (Locke & Latham, 2006), and taking action will become second nature.
These psychological techniques are proven to increase the chances of achieving our goals (Matthews, 2015).🚀
But if these simple steps are all it takes to achieve what we desire, and drastically improve our quality of life…
…why isn’t goal-setting common practice for everyone?
98% of People Never Set
Personal Goals
And here’s why:
❌Reluctance/Ignorance
• I don’t need this
• This won’t work
• I don’t know how to do this
❌Fear of:
• Failure or even success
• Criticism from others
• Commitment
❌Passivity
• Seeing the distance between where we are now and our goal as too large
• The belief that we aren’t worthy of success
• Having lost hope in life because of past or current circumstances
If any of these struck a chord, that’s ok. Fortunately, these obstacles can be overcome.
So, if there’s one thing you take away from this article, let it be this:
You have the ability to take control of your brain and, consequently, your life!
You have the power to change the way you perceive and accept the information you’re receiving.
It is your responsibility – and yours alone – to make your dreams come true.
Ready to start living
a more fulfilling life?
For 8+ years, I’ve shared my knowledge on the psychology of goal setting with successful individuals and companies. But since I read that only 2% of people actually set out their goals, my focus has shifted.
Everyone deserves to live a richer and happier life.
That’s why I’m committed to sharing this knowledge with anyone willing to listen.
I believe that learning how to set personal goals is more important than ever in today’s unpredictable world. With so much happening around us, it can be difficult to stay focused and motivated while navigating stressful environments.
To make this knowledge more accessible and digestible, I set out to create a goal-setting tool that anyone can use…
One that can teach people the psychological techniques needed to rewire their brains for success. All while being fun and engaging!
Introducing “Play to Make it Happen”📣
The First EVER Personal Goal-Setting Tool in Board Game Form!

HOW DOES IT WORK?
Play to Make it Happen is played by, well, yourself. For the best results, I recommend being alone in your room so you can really dig deep into each step.
Despite the fun concept, the game’s design is based on scientifically proven goal-setting techniques. These include all important and necessary steps to reprogram your Reticular Activating System.

The game takes you on a journey through a land where each landscape represents one important area for setting and achieving personal goals.
Throughout the journey, you’ll be uncovering and understanding the best goal-setting techniques and psychological practices. These very techniques have also helped me in my professional career.
The entire process will take between 2 – 3 hours to complete but think of the amount of time it will ultimately save on the journey towards your desire-driven destination.
The best part? Once you’ve completed the process, you’ll have the psychological toolkit you need to achieve not only your current goals but all future milestones too!
Learn how to:
✅ Turn any desire into an achievable goal
✅ Understand why achieving a goal is important to you
✅ Develop a detailed action plan
✅ Build psychological resilience to inevitable obstacles
✅ Free yourself of limiting beliefs
✅ Discover the power of goal visualization
✅ Rewire your brain’s RAS system to achieve success
Most importantly, you’ll learn how to set personal goals, while achieving the mindset shift needed to obtain all you desire for the rest of your life.
What Goals Can Be Set
With This Tool?
Honestly, anything! From building a healthier lifestyle to getting that promotion at work, fortifying your finances, quitting smoking, improving relationships of any kind, sporting success, and so much more…
With the right approach, we can do anything we set our mind to!
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ABOUT GOAL SETTING?
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Live Up to Your
Full Potential
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Live Up to Your
Full Potential
Write down your action plan, learn how to set personal goals, discover the best psychological approaches to stay motivated, and gain the confidence you need to finally claim all you desire.
Order Play to Make it Happen, and embark on your goal-crushing journey!





